The orgasm gap is a concept among sex researchers that explains the unequal distribution of orgasms between women and men. According to a recent American survey, men experience orgasm up to three times more often than women. When stats like these hit the media there’s always a lot of discussion about how to close the orgasm gap. But what if the gap doesn’t need to be ‘closed’? What if we accept that the orgasmic patterns of women and men shouldn’t be compared? All genders experience pleasure in different and unique ways and for a lot of people, orgasm isn’t the only necessary ingredient for great sex.

Which leads me to my top 3 tips for increased pleasure. (Note: I use the word pleasure because orgasm does not need to be reached every time.)

1. Communicate and ask for what you want. Communication is key to great sex and pleasure. Having the confidence to speak to your partner about sex gives you an avenue to express what it is you enjoy and desire. Expressing what turns you on is essential to getting what you want – and taking pleasure to new heights. Be bold, open and honest with your lovers… you have nothing to lose and only more pleasure to gain!

2. Self-Pleasure. Explore yourself intimately by masturbating. Experiment with fantasy, and find your pleasure spots. Once you’ve discovered how to turn yourself on, it makes partner sex easier because you can guide your lover. After all, if you don’t know your pleasure spots, how can you expect someone else to?

3. Let go of the end goal of orgasm. It’s important to keep in mind that when it comes to pleasure and sex, there are no ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’. A lot of women don’t necessarily need to climax during sex. In fact, many women just want to feel connection and intimacy with their partner. Often we become so focused on reaching the ‘Big-O’ that we forget simple pleasures like kissing, touching and connecting. Every woman is unique: orgasmic patterns and pleasure change over time (and with different sexual partners). Some women reach orgasm easily, and others do not. Feeling pressure to orgasm takes away from the experience of pleasure and desire…work on letting go of the end goal of orgasm and place your focus and energy on all the other stuff that feels good as well. https://www.yourdoll.com/

• Antibacterial soap
• Water
• Talcum powder (baby powder)
• Light sponge
• A second sponge cut up into smaller swabs
• A non-abrasive drying cloth
• Medical pincers
• Strong paper towel

Be prepared, that after every single use you will need to clean your beautiful doll. This rule is even more important when it comes to cleaning a TPE doll. TPE is a very porous material, so if her vaginal, anal and oral cavities stay dirty for a long time, you will see some mold. This can cause some health problems, and you will have to replace the affected cavity right away.

It is very easy to clean TPE and Silicone sex dolls – just put her in a warm bath or shower, and please use some very light antibacterial soap. Wash her wig separately, using a simple shampoo and conditioner. Let her hair air dry and please do not use a blow dryer on any part of her body, including the wig.

Makeup can be removed using a washcloth with warm water. Please do not put the sex doll’s face in the water when taking a bath.

how to clean my sex doll

After Washing
Pat dry your doll with a towel. Do not let any water stay on her body as it may cause mold to grow if you are storing her in a dark place. It is also recommended to apply baby powder to her body. This procedure will remove any unwanted moisture and make your beauty’s skin soft. TPE material, especially after a wash, may become a little bit sticky. Applying baby powder will make your sex doll’s skin as smooth as silk.

How Often Do I Need To Clean My Doll?
There are two aspects to this question, one being for hygiene whilst the other for the longevity of the doll.
We would suggest that clean your doll every 2 – 4 weeks. This should be the perfect balance between hygiene and ensuring your doll lasts as long as possible. Many of our customers are quite anal (pardon the pun) on hygiene and choose to clean the doll after each use. Keep in mind that doing this could degrade the doll’s skin quicker and shorten the lifespan or lead to skin tears sooner than you would have liked.
We do recommend that you get into a routine of cleaning your doll so it becomes second nature.

1. Grab one of the small swab sponges with the medical pincers and coat the sponge with warm water and antibacterial soap, ensuring it is thoroughly coated.
2. Push the sponge into the vagina or anus and using the pincers move it around the orifice until it is thoroughly cleaned.
3. Remove the sponge, clean using warm water and repeat step 1 & 2 again.
4. At this stage the vagina and anus should be cleaned and free of any bacteria.
5. Using the pincers again, grab a second dry swab sponge and insert in the vagina and anus to take out most of the moisture, then remove.
6. Finally, wrap the strong paper towel around the end of the pincers and put inside the doll again, giving it a final dry.
7. Once the doll has dried use the talcum powder on the exterior of the vagina and anus

How Do I Dry My Doll After Cleaning?
Ensuring your doll has dried fully is very important as it prevents and friction on the skin which could potentially cause a tear of the skin.
To dry the doll, use a light non-abrasive cloth to gently pat down the doll when wet. Do not apply too much much pressure as the final part of the drying will be natural.
Once you have removed the bulk of moisture from the doll, allow it to sit for an hour and full dry naturally. After this time you can apply the talcum powder to the doll’s body to give it a nice fragrance and prevent the skin from becoming tacky.

Warning:

• Use any cleaning agent which will have a reaction with the silicone or TPE skin
• Avoid using any sharp objects when cleaning the doll as this could lead to puncturing the skin
• Avoid getting the head or neck submerged in water for any period of time
• Do not apply too much pressure to the doll’s skin when cleaning or drying the doll as again this could lead to a tear
• NEVER use a hair or blow dryer to dry your doll, this will almost certainly damage your doll

The Best Professional Advice
Store your doll in a dry and cool place, avoiding direct sunlight and freezing temperatures. Try to use an only water-based lubricant for oral, vaginal and anal cavities to prevent the doll’s skin from tearing. Petroleum and silicone lubricants may permanently damage your sex doll. You may also use a condom for a simple cleanup after use.

Remember, that your doll’s hygiene is just as important, as your hygiene. Keeping her body clean and sanitized will make her last years and keep you healthy and therefore, happy!